Copenhagen Harbor

Copenhagen Harbor

Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Pondering Paris




Imagine strolling down the side walk, passing by Parisian cafes packed with people sipping on lattes and soft accordion music pouring out  over looking the Seine with it's small meandering boats going by , and the smell of warm fresh croissant greeting your nose.
aaaahhh our preconceived notions of Paris.

Now Imagine a bumpy, loud, dirty metro taking you to an hour long wait for the Eiffel Tower as Parisian teenage dirt bags refuse to leave you alone.
That's the Paris I experienced.

I went in to this trip with every dream, hope and beautiful picture of Paris painted in my mind. I mean ITS PARIS! and of course it had it's charm - tasty croissants, wines and cheeses and beautiful towering churches- however overall I felt an overwhelming feeling of disappointment as the city felt short of my high expectations.

Before I go on about how Danish Culture is way better than Parisian culture, let me first talk about the highlt enjoyable parts of my trip.


The Churches. 


Notre Dame was not just a beautiful face, it was an ephemeral but emotional experience. Mama and I happened to be there on Veteran's Day (or Armistice Day) and so a choir was rehearsing inside. Beautiful choir music rang through the towering ceilings, making for an overwhelming experience; giving me a sense of faith, love, fear, joy... wrapping me in the presence of God. A feeling which brought me to tears as my soul was brought to its knees. Sitting in that church absorbing the light and music into myself like a sponge, I realized how disconnected I had become with my faith. It was like I had so much to tell Him, I needed to ask for the Lord's forgiveness for neglecting Him in my life for a while and at the same time proclaim my love for Him and thank Him. But no words were needed, no prayers to be said, no sermons to be listened to, I just entered that church and the tears welled in my eyes like I couldn't keep what was in my heart within me at that moment. Faith is flexible, it can eb and wave, as long as the ocean doesn't dry up there will always be a high tide to follow the low.
With a faithful heart and a sinners body I lifted myself of my seat and continued to be in awe of this mighty cathedral. We waited in line for over an hour to climb to the top of that amazing building. And after endless steps we reached the top and were faced with a gorgeous view alongside majestic gargoyles.
Along with Notre Dame we also took in the excellency of Sainte Chappelle. We stood in the warm and beauty of the floor to ceiling stained glass windows displaying different biblical stories. Never has a photo required a filter less, these windows were a stunning aura of light and color, intricate and blended with one another at the same time.





The Tower.
Of course we went to the the Eiffel Tower, I mean is that even a question? no... if you didn't go to the Eiffel Tower were you really in Paris at all?? 
I think the Eiffel Tower lived up to its hype. It is of course gorgeous, especially at night all a-glow. And it is quite tall! we took multiple elevators all the way to the top with mom gripping my arm and fearing for her life the whole way up. 


The Food.

Food is very important to me, so of course I had pre-booked a eating excursion.
 Mor and me went on a tasting tour of the St Germain area with "Paris by Mouth" tours. It was an intimate group of 8 including our tour guide, a Californian defected to Paris for the love of food. We stopped at many renowned shops: a boulangerie, an MOF chocalatier, a charcuterie, a fromagerie, and concluded our night with the sommalier. We leisurely paired our cheese, meats and wines. Some were quite good though one cheese could only be described as the equivalent of licking a farm animal.The chocolate was amazing; extraordinary combinations of flavors in the finest of cocoa: Espresso, Jasmine tea, and Lemon and Basil. We had one other stop for sweets after the wine and cheese. We were scheduled for a creme puff one can only dream of, and we ended up literally only dreaming of them because we didn't get there in time and the shop closed. It turned out to be not so bad a turn of bad luck as we ended up going to the shop of a man who brought salted caramel into being... yum.




The Art.
We took a trip to the lovely Louvre and saw some amazing art. Of course the 8 year old in me begged mom to taking pictures of me imitating statues. Hey, we all have our own ways of appreciating art. We also took the obligatory selfie with my gurl Mona Lisa. We also visited the Musee d'Orsay which was so great, I loved all the Van Gogh, Monet, and Degas.



The People and Culture.
Here's were I start to turn on our French friends. Mom put it so aptly that you felt as if Parisians were laughing at you the second you turned around, like our waiter at the fancy restaurant, the lady at the baguette shop, and the lady at the Louvre ticket booth.
It is proper Parisian etiquette to always say "Bonjour" when you enter a store and "Au Revoir" as you exit. Ain't that adorable.... I see it as really fake. They put on a facade of friendliness, when really they don't care for or about you. And this is where I become an advertisement for Denmark. In Danish culture, these niceties are nonexistent, this may make them seem harsh but NO it is refreshing because they don't put on a fake act, they are extremely sweet and friendly once approached but they don't require stupid empty politeness.

And as our time with Paris came to an end, we felt a sense of content in experiencing such a city but looked happily forward to our date with London

Thursday, November 20, 2014

This is my Temporary Home

6am I jump out of bed
615 dress and brushing my teeth
630 shoveling down some toast
640 frantically looking up the bus time
645 running to the bus stop
648 realizing I'm at the wrong bus stop because I'm too excited
649 realizing I dont have time to make it to the right bus stop
715 the alternative route bus finally arrives
800 worrying I will be late
820 make it to the airport
830 still waiting... guess I wasn't late
845 Mama strolls out of those arrival doors!

The morning I had been waiting for for weeks, my mama coming to visit me! So, bright and earlier I picked up a sleep deprived but cheerful mama and we went straight away to get a pastry!
I dragged her jet lagged self around Copenhagen, from Nyhavn to the round tower and by my school. I don't think I ever stopped talking, typical. I was so happy to be with one of my best friends telling her and showing her my life for the past months. At 5pm we retired to my host families house for a lovely dinner. I'm so glad my mom got to meet Kirsten and Morten because they have become an important part of my life and they are very special to me. Mom was hitting the wall and so we ventured home so mom could finally get some sleep after being awake for over 24 hours. So we went to bed with sweet dreams of Paris in our heads.

{ the saga of mom's visit continues with the next couple of blogs}

Monday, November 3, 2014

Velkommen til København

....Folks, we have begun our descent to Copenhagen, Denmark, where the current weather is a lovely 8 degrees outside and raining. we will be at the gate in about twenty minutes, We'd like the flight attendants to prepare the cabin for arrival.and we want to thank you for flying with us today....

SO YOU'RE GOING TO DENMARK…
maybe you're thinking how can I fit in? what Danish customs should I comply to?

well here's some hints:

What do Danes wear? - Black on black on black… there is very little color in the Dane's wardrobe and the more hipster a Dane is the more black they will wear as well as the tighter the pants will be and the bigger the scarf. Also feel free to wear sneakers with jeans, with a skirt, with a  dress, with just about anything -totally acceptable to even show up to the bar in your running shoes.

What about dining? - prepare for potatoes, that’s a staple. and mind your table manners, keep both your fork and knife in your hands at the same time. Also Danish people eat slow… don't wolf down your whole plate in 3 minutes. You should also thank your host for the food in Danish that's "tak for mad". Saying thanks is super important to Danish culture!

Are Danes nice? they seem stand off-ish. - the Danes are a sweet peoples but very quiet. they will not make small talk on the bus and if they need to get by to get off that bus they won't say excuse me they will just clear their throat or stand up and just wait for you to get the hint. Actually Danes don't even use the words "excuse me" you could say sorry - "unskyld" but more often Danes will just say nothing and this doesn't mean they are being rude, though it does seem like they are just making it more difficult for themselves. Basically communication is not their strong suit but if you initiate a conversation, say asking for directions most Danes will be happy to help and very friendly!

Okay now here’s an important question will people understand me? - YES most Danes speak English, well . Because Denmark is so small and the only country that speaks Danish they know they must pick up another language to function globally and English is a key choice. Signs/menus may not be in English often but you can order in English no problem . If you want to say I don't speak Danish in Danish you say "jeg taler ikke dansk" but people will probably understand you better if you just say it in English

What do I call the delicious treat that I know as a Danish?? - we will just call those pastries, the Danish word is  "weinerbrød", no matter what you call them, pastries will be consumed and it will be enjoyable.

How will I get around? - Danes don't use cars too often, it's all about public transportation and BIKES. we will ride the metro (metroen), bus (bussen) and the train (toget). If you choose not to use a bike (cykle) try to just take note of the really interesting bike culture. They are everywhere and the bike lanes function like regular street traffic. Watch out to not get into the bike lane because they will take you out, cyclists are fierce.

I'm thinking of checking out the bar scene what will that be like? - Copenhagen has a variety of bars from small intimate hyggelig bars to bumping discoteks where you can dance all night. You will find that if you show up much before 10 the bars will be empty. Danes find midnight to be a reasonable hour to start the party and will probably keep going until 4 or 5 in the AM. Also if you appreciate healthy pulmonary function you may not be able to stay in certain bars for too long because many bars still allowe smoking indoors. On a more technical note keep in mind that buses stop running on the weekends at midnight so you may end up walking  half hour with your roommate or calling your host brother to pick you up at the train station at 3am (sorry Morty). One more fun fact about nightlife: you will most definitely see a man peeing on a building at some point during your night,

What's the money situation, will I have fat stacks of cash when I convert my American money?? - NO. Scandinavia is one of the most expensive places to like in the world. The Danish Kroner is worth 5.5 USD but don't think you're getting 5 times your money this is reflected in the prices. You'll probably suffer mild sticker shock when you have to pay 30kr for a coffee (30 dollars for a coffee?! stay calm it's only 6 dollars which is still highway robbery for en lille kaffe latte)


Now you should be a little more prepared for your upcoming visit, we hope you enjoy your staying in lovely Copenhagen.